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Suggestions for your success at
raising Money Smart Kids
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Be consistent.
Teaching, training and disciplining are processes that require your
time, effort and consistency. Once you have established an allowance
amount and frequency, add it to your family budget and pay it as you
would any other bill—consistently and on time. Follow through with
rewards and penalties that you have established.
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Do not tie allowance to chores.
The primary purpose of an allowance is to help children learn to handle
finances. Being part of a family entails responsibilities, benefits and
rewards. Require your children to do household chores without being
paid, such as washing dishes, cleaning bathrooms, doing laundry, dusting
and gardening. These help provide for everyone’s needs. They should be
required to do more than just clean up after themselves. They benefit
by having food, shelter, clothing, relationship and an allowance. If
you desire, tie your child’s performance of completing regular chores to
entertainment privileges such as television time, having a friend over,
playing video games or computer. Make a chart to keep track of chores
or character traits that you wish to stress and reinforce in your
child’s life.
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Give opportunities to earn extra money
inside and outside the home, beyond their family responsibilities.
These can teach a good work ethic and the concept that work equals pay.
Post jobs that are age-specific and be clear about what is expected.
Pay only for quality work, done quickly and well. Require that regular
chores be completed first. Pay by the job, not the hour and do not pay
for slack, slow or sloppy work. Allow them to watch you do the job at
least once before you ask them to do it alone. Inspect the work before
you pay, but pay promptly.
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Be sure that allowances do not discourage family
involvement or encourage laziness.
Children’s allowances should be enough to look forward to, but not
enough to meet all their wants so they have no need for extra jobs.
Review and adjust allowances from time to time. Eventually, you should
wean your children off of allowances and on to their own earned income.
Therefore, allowances should not keep pace (percentage-wise) with their
budgets.
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Allow your children to get involved in family finances.
You will likely see that they are understanding and willing to help make
things work. Teach them that a budget is all about choices, we can have
most anything, but it will require doing without some other things.
Give them the appropriate tools that they need to budget their own
finances, such as the Money-smart Kids Budget Bank or Kids’ Debit
Card. Budgeting applies to time, talents, and abilities as well.
Allow your late-teens to have their own checking and savings account, a
credit card (with a low maximum) and day-planners while under your care
so that they can learn their proper use.
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Take each individual child into consideration—their
strengths, weaknesses, abilities and problems. On the other hand,
personality differences or behavior issues are not valid excuses for
violating God’s laws or principles.
Parents cannot establish financial discipline in their children if the
parents are undisciplined.
If we lead our children to believe that money really does grow on trees
and all they have to do is pick some off when they need it, then we are
inviting disaster when they become adults. |